New Contest: They say women can’t drive…

Posted by: gretchen on August 9, 2010 in News | Leave a Comment

Girls Can’t WHAT? has teamed up with DriversEd.com to give away 5 Codes to access 10 FREE DMV Practice Tests!

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Ace your permit test! Win a DriversEd.com state-specific DMV Practice Test package. Seamlessly learn on your mobile device or computer 24/7. How prepared are you?

To win, be one of the first five ladies to post the correct answers to the following three questions in the comments below no later than Friday, August 13th at 5pm CST.

  1. Which technique provides a smooth transition from acceleration to braking?
    A. Cover braking
    B. Skid braking
    C. Squeeze braking
    D. None of the above
  2. When driving on a slippery road surface, you should ____________________.
    A. increase your speed
    B. avoid sudden braking or acceleration
    C. keep your feet off the accelerator at all times
  3. Which of these behaviors increase your risk of an accident?
    A. Speeding
    B. Accelerating at a yellow light
    C. Accelerating in bad weather
    D. All of the above

Girls Can’t Play Baseball or Softball

Posted by: gretchen on August 3, 2010 in New Designs | 2 Comments

Girls Can't WHAT? Baseball Gifts for GirlsAt the age of 10, my youngest daughter has been playing softball for three years now. When I was her age, softball wasn’t even an option let alone playing on an all-girls team.  If you were a girl and you wanted to play ball, you joined the boys team.  that’s what I did.

Having grown up playing Little League baseball, softball is a little foreign to me but I’m learning the rules and techniques while watching my daughter play.

Softball is pretty popular in my area during the summer months. I would really love to join a team some year but I’m finding it difficult to find a womens softball team in my area.  What really blows my mind is that there don’t seem to be any co-ed teams around here either.  Maybe someday.

Girls Can't WHAT? Personalized Softball Gifts for Girls

For this season, I created a few new designs that can be customized to add a team name. Each design has a different text to match with typical team colors. If you need a different color (just ask me).  There are baseball and softball designs to choose from, but they are interchangeable.

These designs can easily be customized to make a sports jersey top. Click the “Customize It” button on the product page to begin designing one for your team today. Discounts are available for team orders and will automatically be applied to your shopping cart when you order. For more sports designs, visit Sports Gifts for Girls.

5 Essential Books for Achieving Success

Posted by: gretchen on August 3, 2010 in Challenges | Leave a Comment

Girls Can't WHAT? Rule the WorldThis week’s challenge has to do with reading.  No, I don’t expect anyone to read all five books in one week, but I invite you to read through the description for each one and make a note of which ones you’d like to read.  You may click on them and buy direct from Amazon or add it to your library list. The challenge is to take action on reading at least one of these before the end of the year. Easy enough, right?

The following books are what I would personally label “recommended reading for achieving success”.  They are recipes for sorting out the junk in your life and setting up achievable goals and living a life you love.  They are 100% practical, without the fluff and woo-woo philosophical mumbo-jumbo that sounds good on paper but is forgotten by the next day.  These books are tried and true, solid and easy to read.  If I had to pare down my entire book collection to just 5 books, these are the ones I would keep.

And by the way, don’t read any of these books unless you really want to change your life or conquer your dreams.  Because after you read these, you will have NO excuse not to take action.

These are books I refer to over and over and over again.  I don’t necessarily re-read them from cover to cover, but I have favorite sections and inspirational passages that motivate me or help generate new ideas when I’m in a rut.

Now, if you aren’t familiar with any of these books, let me suggest you read them in the following order.  Although they have similar elements, each book has a specific purpose.  I find that I tend to cycle through them in a certain order and if you’re starting from scratch, this order will make more sense to you.

1. Unclutter Your Life in One Week by Erin Rooney Doland

Purpose: Getting rid of clutter, clearing the decks of your workspace.

Unclutter Your Life in One Week

Cleaning out your closet may seem like an odd place to start, but you’re not going to get anywhere with your dreams if you’re drowning in a sea of “stuff”.  Stuff can be anything from physical clutter to too many events on your schedule.

Erin’s book is the BEST at systematically going through your living space and clearing it out to make room for the things you truly enjoy.  She not only tackles the space-mooching things in your home, but also digital pack-ratting and how to create a schedule that will make you want to pop out of bed before your alarm goes off.

2. Getting Things Done: The Art of Stress-Free Productivity by David Allen

Purpose: Managing your workflow, handling “todo lists” and clearing your mind

Getting Things Done

Warning: This book is life-changing.  You will never think the same way about time management and todo lists again.  You will also be more productive than you’ve ever been in your entire life.  I first read this book about 5 years ago and the concepts were mind-blowing.  I have used the GTD techniques to leave my boring desk job and move into the realm of working from home as an entrepreneur.  You can put any project through this system and achieve it.

And the best part is that it’s incredibly simple to grasp and implement.  You can have a personalized system set up and running within minutes.  It’s that easy!  No fancy planner, no software, no special equipment. Pen and paper will work just as well your favorite electronic tool.  Read the book, learn the workflow and start getting things done!

3. Getting Results for Dummies by Mark H. McCormack

Purpose: Learning to be real with scheduling

Getting Results for Dummies

I hesitated to add this one to the list, because frankly, Mark appears to be superhuman.  But once you’ve devoured this book, it will all come together as to how and why Mark is successful.  My main takeaway from this book was learning to be realistic with my planning and scheduling. Knowing the differences between optimistic and pessimistic scheduling was a huge boost to me.

I may not be traveling the globe on international business like Mark is, but I’m managing my schedule alongside my kids’s school and sports schedules and trying to run a household in the process.  The tips he has for planning are invaluable.  And he’s not really superhuman…he is just incredibly detailed. And he takes afternoon naps, doesn’t that sound like a great plan?

4. Making Work Work: New Strategies for Surviving and Thriving at the Office
by Julie Morgenstern

Purpose: Show me the money!

Making Work Work

No matter what you do in life, you’re gonna need to have some cash or at least something to barter or trade in exchange for what you need.  Julie’s book is aimed at the office worker, but as an entrepreneur I found her writing to be a resource I refer back to for guidance frequently.

This book is not about making a fortune or giving you million dollar ideas.  This book is about taking your existing work (like say the lists you compiled from the Getting Things Done book) and making the right choices on what to do based on how that task correlates to your bottom line.  Knowing how to pick tasks based on their ultimate financial value can give you peace of mind that your dream won’t be going bankrupt any time soon.

5. The Power of Less by Leo Babauta

Purpose: Regeneration, Focus

The Power of Less

Ideally, I wanted to start with this book in the #1 slot, but I realized that as I cycle through these books, this one is both an ending point and a beginning point fro me.  It’s an ending point in a sense that I start to recognize what I still want to shed from my schedule, my life and my goals.  But it’s a beginning point in that I start to mentally create a clearer, brighter and more focused path to where I want to be which leads me back to the books mentioned above to assist with the implementation.

This book is a short read, but it’s so packed with ideas that I usually have to stop reading and jot my ideas down before I forget.  I always walk away from this book feeling calmer and more refreshed.  It gives me a feeling that life can be made simpler and kicks my brain into high gear towards achieving that lifestyle.

Are you up for the challenge?

If you’re an avid reader, by all means go for it and read all five.  If that seems overwhelming, set a goal to pick up at least one of these from your local library or click the links to buy from Amazon. (And yes those are affiliate links… I should get credit for promoting, right?)

If you’ve read any of these books already, what did you think?  I’d love to hear some feedback on what you learned and how you’ve used it to move closer to your goals.

Olympic Medalist Angela Ruggiero Was Cut From Hockey Team at Age 9

Posted by: gretchen on July 30, 2010 in Share Your Story | Leave a Comment

Angela is a four-time Olympic ice hockey medalist, World Champion, National Champion and Harvard University graduate with almost every honor and distinction in the book. Angela fell in love with ice hockey as a young child, but since she was a girl, there were very limited opportunities for her to play.

Angela Ruggiero (credit- Mathew Edstrom)Angela says:

“I was told I “can’t” when I was 9 because I was a girl… I was cut from an all boys team my brother was playing on and was selected as first alternate.

Being told I couldn’t sent a message to me at an early age:

To prove I belong.

That moment provided me with the impetus to push myself harder than ever before…

A reason I was able to make the Olympic team at age 18.

Thank you to that coach!”

So, Angela made it her mission to be as good as, and even better than the boys… and she is!

Angela never let being a girl stop her. In fact, it just fueled her harder to reach the top. Angela even played in the CHL as the first female non-goalie to play professional hockey in the US.

When not training, competing or traveling the world (as necessary for her newly-appointed position on the International Olympic Committee Board), Angela runs a girls hockey school to make sure that girls all over have great opportunities to follow their own dreams as well.

Angela is a trailblazer in the international world of women’s ice hockey. She is quite an accomplished and passionate woman who is truly an inspiration to all.

Girls Can’t Be Lifeguards

Posted by: gretchen on July 28, 2010 in New Designs | 2 Comments

Girls Can't WHAT? LifeguardBeing a lifeguard is not as easy at it looks. It requires intense training and the job itself id very demanding. Lifeguards must be alert at all times and ready to tend to emergencies at a moment’s notice.

Some interesting facts about lifeguarding:

  • Clara Barton, who heard about the International Red Cross movement while in Europe after the Civil war, founded the American Red Cross in Washington, D.C. on May 21, 1881.
  • In 1937 the Red Cross text for lifesavers, Life Saving and Water safety, was published, replacing a booklet, Life Saving Methods. The new text “an authoritative source of knowledge and information,” had no pictures of women rescuers.
  • Men are four times more likely to drown than women.

If anyone says women can’t lifeguard, just respond by saying “Girls Can’t WHAT?”  The lifeguard designs are available in the Girls Can’t WHAT? Shop.

Cathy was the first woman to play in the National Adult Marble Tournament

Posted by: gretchen on July 27, 2010 in Share Your Story | 1 Comment

I grew up with 4 brothers and I was often told I couldn’t do certain things… but my grandmother told me differently and I valued her opinion to the utmost!

In 1992 I was the first woman to ever play in the National Adult Marble Tournament The Rolley Hole in Tennessee. I also in the early 1980′s was the first woman in the Marble Collectors Society of America to really study, learn and teach American Machine- Made Marbles from the early 1900′s-the 60′s.

I have helped with quite a few books and even my own little simple booklet KNUCKLES DOWN….A FUN GUIDE TO MARBLE PLAY is in it’s 5th printing. My husband and I also donated one of the world’s largest, most complete marble collections to the Toy and Miniature Museum in Kansas City, MO. www.toyandminiaturemuseum.org

I still teach hundreds of children how to play marbles every year and I NEVER tell any girl she can’t do it!  Marbles is one sport that is totally equal… No matter the gender, the social class, the cultural background, the language, etc. I have played marbles in Japan, Ireland, Mexico, Canada…Dominican Republic….children everywhere can play equally together!

Cathy Runyan-Svacina
The Marble Lady
www.themarblelady.com

Bora Encourages Girls to Get Educated

Posted by: Share Your Story on July 27, 2010 in Share Your Story | 1 Comment

I had never had anybody say you can not do it because you are a girl. But I had seen people underestimating my ability. Like once I try to join a local flag football team and the coach thought I was a boy.

At first he shook my hand and we had small talk. Later, when I went in for a follow up to turn my paper. On my insurance card it says F and in the sign up sheet I put F as in female. He jumped back and kicked me out of my office.

I laughed it off, but as an Korean-American there are not alot of koreans in media sports. So already as a Korean, I feel like you can not do it. All I have to say is prove them wrong.

Somebody in the blog wrote a bunch of stuff about TRUTH HURTS and how somebody won the marathon by seconds. Well did they ever consider that it maybe the men might have started playing sports since he was younger? And he has a more support group than the female?

I ask everybody to read WHY MEN GET PAID MORE.  It is reallly a good book. And anyways I really think woman and men are the same. I was even singing the song. I will tell you why.

Most the time people think I am a boy. I just go along not that I want to physically be a boy.  People treat me exactly the same. It is how you see it and take it. Trust me.

And do not ever think just because there is no high school football team for a certain gender there are not saying you can not play football. When I was growing up there was no parks. Yep, no recreation center. None. Did it mean I can not go out and play?

Did you know long time ago black people could not be quarterbacks? Did you know in basketball you could not be a black point guard because it is the “captain” of the team and they did not want to give black people those kind of power.

Well guess what?  Now we have a black president. We just need to keep positive. And did you know there is a girl baseball team in CA? Even a tackle football team? Start one in your community… go out there and play! Do what you want to do.

Do not try to impress by trying to fit in. I know one thing being a boy and a girl by societies mind. You have to learn not to care about other people because they really dont care about you. If you are good player people would die to play with you.

p.s. I hope everybody read this and get inspired. read books about women in sports and women in your race. and women this know the history. Before I could not even list basketball players in the WNBA. now I know a handful. By the way, there was a female kicker who played in the NCAA.  Get educated! Stand up! Do not back down.

World Champion Poker Player Beth Shak Proves She is More Than a Pretty Face

Posted by: gretchen on July 23, 2010 in Share Your Story | 1 Comment

Beth with CardsAs a female in the traditionally male dominated sport of poker, Beth Shak has spent her entire professional career breaking down the barriers that female poker players are forced to face.

As a world champion poker player (who was also named world’s sexiest poker player by News of the World), Beth has had to prove that she is more than just a pretty face. She participates in the highest stakes tournaments such as the World Series of Poker and the World Poker Tour every year, and in her short professional career (she went pro in 2004), Beth has made it two World Series of Poker final tables and earned close to $1 million.

Now, she has earned the respect of all her competitors and has a HUGE fan base.

Beth says, “I’m so proud not only to be a successful poker player, but to be a successful woman in a male-dominated field. Thanks to the loyal support of Full Tilt Poker and my amazing fans, I have been fortunate enough to be the woman who brings this incredible sport into popular culture. It’s truly an honor, and it’s been one hell of a ride. I can’t wait to see what happens next!”

Beth Shak on Facebook

Post Office Now Approves of Women Working

Posted by: gretchen on July 22, 2010 in New Designs | 3 Comments

Yesterday I posted that The US Post Office Doesn’t Approve of Women Working.  Confused by their rejection of my design on a postage stamp, I decided to submit two more variations to see what the real problem was.  See if you can make sense of the results…

Here is the original image rejected by the Post Office:

Girls Can't WHAT? Women Working Sign

This submission was a test to see if they were disallowing the actual road sign (it got approved):

Men Working Sign

This design, which has the same meaning as the original, was also approved.  Go figure.

Women Working Construction Sign

So what’s the deal? Why do you think the original got the thumbs down? Perhaps they thought we were calling the men “women” and that was insulting? Who knows.

Anyway, both variations are available in the Girls Can’t WHAT? Gift Shop.  Get your postage now before the post office changes their mind.


Mixed Martial Arts Needs Your Support in NY

Posted by: gretchen on July 22, 2010 in Guest Posts | 3 Comments

This article is a guest post from Alexia Krause:

Girls Can't WHAT? Martial Arts

With the New York state deficit hitting $8 billion, steps need to be taken in order to right the ship that is the state’s budget. Recently New York Gov. David Paterson stated that the projected deficit for the upcoming fiscal year has grown by an additional $750 million. There’s no doubting that the Empire State is in dire straits trying to fix their deficit. As a result, the state has been forced to cut, reject, and outright shut down many state programs in order to make some type of movement out of the red and into the black. Many of these budget cuts (like closing down state parks and cutting funding to public schools) were rampant and have cast an unfavorable light on politicians in Albany in the eyes of many New Yorkers. However, something must be done in order to fight the ailing state economy. As coincidence has it, a good fight might just be the answer to the budget problems.

On June 16th, the New York State Senate passed a bill to legalize MMA in the state in an effort to help amend the state’s financial problems. Opening the floodgates for MMA in New York would be more of a benefit to the state than it would to the MMA Industry. Mixed martial arts competitions like UFC, among others, have been banned in the state because many lawmakers felt it was too brutal of a sport (even though other legal sports like football and hockey can be just as- if not more- brutal). With the passing of this new bill, fans will finally be able to support their home state and local venues. MMA events would potentially have access to one of the most active metropolises in the world- New York City. Fortunately state legislators have finally come to the realization that legalizing MMA will open access to a new revenue stream that it gravely needs.

By welcoming MMA in the state, as much as $11 million in economic activity could be generated for each event held. This activity ranges from salaries paid to venue workers, to an increased interest in martial arts training academies and dojos, and to tourism dollars spent in the surrounding area. At every step of the way, tax revenue is generated. Governor Paterson expects over $2 million generated annually if the bill is passed. The MMA organization UFC (who would play a large role in scheduling events in the state) is broadcasted in over 170 countries, made $5.1 million in Pay-Per-View sales in 2007 alone, and averaged 30.6 million viewers in that same year. This type of outreach is bound to benefit the state and bring thousands to events, thus helping the economies of struggling New York state cities.

Income generated from events isn’t the only way that this bill will help bring money to the state of New York. In fact, the broad reach of allowing MMA to be legalized is something that will affect participants in the sport from top to bottom. For example, people who run mixed martial training gyms and programs will see a huge revenue-generating boost in enrollment that will give many young women the chance to train and compete in their home state. This bill may even have the effect of preventing violence instead of causing it (which opponents of the bill argue) because it will allow many kids to go someplace safe after school.

Studies have shown that when at-risk children train in a disciplined sport such as MMA, they are less likely to become involved in criminal or violent activities. When you take a closer look at all the young women in the sport who aspire for something greater than a sparring match, this is a big deal. A sport that includes athletic role models like Gina Carano and Cris “Cyborg” Santos should be sanctioned in one of America’s most populous states. This is not just a financial argument, but it’s also an equal right issue that must be addressed. By passing this law in New York it opens up a new area to both men and women who want to compete on a larger level. This is one of the most important aspects of the bill from a human perspective, and one of the greatest reasons why this bill needs to be passed.

The New York budget is going through one of its worst economic times ever, but by legalizing MMA, it can help to fight back against the deficit and make a difference in the lives of millions of New Yorkers.

Update:

As of the morning of June 29th, 2010, the state assembly quashed the proposed bill which would legalize the sport. The efforts to block MMA in the state are led by a Mr. Bob Reilly, Assemblyman of the 109th district. You can read some of his stances in an interview conducted by Ben Fowlkes of cagepotato.com last year. If you visit that link, pay careful attention to his inconsistencies and question-dodging. This man claims to be a lifelong fan of boxing, but some of his comments in that interview are quite surprising.

Although this decision is a big setback for the industry, this is not the final word for the measure. New York is one of only 6 states which blindly ignore this sport. With your support, new revenue and jobs can be still created.

Alexia is a lifelong fan of sports and fitness. Recently, she’s been smitten by Mixed Martial Arts. She is happy to be representing MMA Industries, proud suppliers of MMA gloves to athletes around the world. Alexia continues to bring you the latest news in the mixed martial arts world on everything from the most advanced MMA equipment to the newest MMA shirts.

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