If you think you have to wait until you reach adulthood to make a difference in the world, spend a few minutes with 18-year-old Sondra Clark from Bellingham, Washington. Sondra has traveled the world, volunteering in a plethora of situations where she saw a need she could fill. She is also the author of seven books, including her latest work titled 77 Creative Ways Kids Can Serve. An incredibly busy person, Sondra was kind enough to squeeze in this interview between her volunteering efforts and performing in two plays last week. Prepare to be inspired. ;)
GCW: Have you ever been injured or encountered any setbacks while pursuing your dream?
Sondra: I’ve never been injured, but have had setbacks. I wrote my sixth book, SNAP 2IT!: A Real Girl’s Guide to Staying Positive and it was supposed to come out in March 2006. Because of a cover design problem, they postponed the release of the book an entire year.
Another time, I collected 5,000 pens, 3,000 toothbrushes and 500 Frisbees to send to Lima to kids I met there, living in the slums. The boxes got held up in customs for 8 months. We tried and tried to get customs to release the items, but they said the toothbrushes were medical supplies and then destroyed everything! It really upset me because I knew how the kids could use those items.
GCW: Wow. I’m glad to see that did not discourage you from continuing your volunteer work. What is your favorite tool or piece of equipment that you use while on volunteer missions?
Sondra: My favorite tool is a power drill my dad gave me when I was 11. When I first got it I drilled holes in lots of things because it was fun. Now I use it for decorating or building projects. I like putting pieces of furniture together that come in kits like from IKEA.
GCW: What are some of the highlights of your life so far?
Sondra: One of the highlights of my career was carrying the Olympic torch for the 2002 Olympics. It’s quite a feeling running down a street with helicopters overhead and the crowds screaming “Go Sondra! USA! USA!” I’ve had amazing experiences doing job shadows. Just spending the day with Shamus trainer was great. I helped her put vitamins in dead salmon and then gave it to Shamu. (He didn’t like his vitamins)
GCW: That sounds like a lot of fun! Have you ever been told you “can’t” because you are a girl?
Sondra: I can’t think of a time when I was told, “You can’t do that because you are a girl”. I think it’s the same reason I’ve never been bullied. I’m not scared to stand up for myself. You can be self-confident without being stuck up. People see I have confidence in my abilities so they don’t doubt I can do what I want. I went to three completely different high schools. Each time I had to make adjustments and find new friends. Even in that situation, no one ever picked on me or belittled me. I think it boils down to being strong and not always worrying about what other people are thinking.
GCW: Do you have a favorite event or memory?
Sondra: I’ve been volunteering all my life. I was asked to volunteer to be in a video for cloth diapers when I was six months old. My mom said I kept crawling away, so they didn’t get the shots they needed. Since then I’ve been a spokesperson for Childcare Worldwide, based here in B’ham and also a spokesperson for Soles4Souls, based in Nashville. I’ve volunteered in every way from cleaning bathrooms at a shelter to working on the Katrina efforts to serving breakfast in the slums of Peru. I guess it’s just a natural part of my life. I don’t think “Oh today I should volunteer somewhere.” If I see a need, I just try and help out. I also try and encourage other people to volunteer. That’s why I speak to schools, churches and service clubs across the country and write the books I do. People see me and think if an ordinary kid can volunteer, then they can too.
When I was 12, I went to Kenya and Uganda. We took a float plane to visit a remote island that didn’t have electricity or running water. I met the kids and was so impressed with their enthusiasm for life¦even though most of them were orphans. They lived in clean but bare buildings, with one houseparent for 20 children. I brought 140 T-shirts. We spread them out on the ground. Then the teacher gave each kid a leaf as pretend money. They got to pick out a shirt and then “pay” me with the leaf. The teacher wanted to teach them what a store was like. Afterwards she told me this was the first time they had gotten to pick out their own clothes. Normally they just take whatever hand me downs someone gives them. I also served breakfast in Lima Peru. Childcare Worldwide gives 11,000 children breakfast every morning. As I was serving them bread and fortified milk, one of the staff told me this was the only meal most of these kids get until the next morning. That made a big impression on me. Last summer, we were in rural villages of Guatemala, giving away shoes through Soles4Souls. We met kids who ran over rocky paths barefoot because they didn’t even own a pair of shoes. They were so thankful to get the shoes we gave them.
When I was 12, we took a year and traveled around the US for a year in an RV. Every Sunday I spoke at a different church or school, asking people to sponsor a child through Childcare worldwide. Many pastors were “scared” to turn over the pulpit to a 12 year old. They thought I’d be shy or nervous. After each presentation, the pastor would say, “If I had known you had such a good message, I would have given you more time.” Once I spoke to kids in Ramstein Army Base in Germany. They didn’t want to be there and talked and scowled at me the whole time. You just have to keep doing the best you can.
GCW: That’s great advice for us all. What other interests do you have?
Sondra: Performing arts plays a big role in my life. I auditioned for Western’s Summer Stock when I was 5 and got a part in Fiddler on the Roof. Since then I’ve done humorous monologues across the country for thousands of people. I just finished playing Fantine in BHS’ Les Miserable, which was an amazing experience. Being in drama teaches you so much about reading an audience, taking control of situations, and having confidence in yourself. People with strong public speaking skills can get through job interviews with ease. Because I do TV and radio appearances, I’ve used my performing arts skills to know how to answer tricky interview questions and how to stay positive when an interviewer is a bit on the cranky side. I was on QVC three times. In order to get on the show, you have to attend “QVC College”. At first they didn’t want me to attend, because I was 13. Then they saw how I answered questions and they let me on. That’s not to be bragging, but to say that public speaking opens a lot of doors! I think high school students should take as many performing or public speaking jobs as possible. Those skills transfer over to every aspect of life.
Like all teenagers, I like to hang out with my friends. My family travels a lot, so whenever we have a few days off, we’ll go explore a new place. Over spring break we went canyoneering in Mt. Zion National Park.
We moved to Nashville during my sophomore and junior year. I went to a small, conservative Christian school where we didn’t even have locks on the lockers. Coming to BHS was a big adjustment but I’ve loved every minute of my senior year. As I mentioned, we spent 12 months in an RV when I was 12. I was also asked by the National Parks and Recreation Association to write a book about various job shadow experiences. So as a part of my homeschooling, I job shadowed over 555 people. This included spending the day with David Letterman’s talent booker, Shamu’s trainer at SeaWorld, a shoe designer at Nike and a model designer at LegoLand. It was amazing seeing all the different career possibilities!
After graduation, I hope to get a job in Bellingham to help pay for college. Then I’m off to Baylor. I’ll probably major in some sort of marketing and communications program. I enjoy public speaking as well as marketing. I’ve had to market my books, so I have some experience in that area. My ideal job would be to be some sort of investigative reporter. Because of all my job shadow experiences, I feel comfortable being thrust in new situations.
16 comments
Cheryl
How can I e-mail you? I live in Bellingham and would love to connect with you. Love your positive spiritual outlook.
neey samuel
sondra, you are an inspiration to me. Though young but but impactful. I can’t forget the relief i had when i read your book “you’ve got what it takes” some 8 or 9 years ago. The positive effect of that book on me am yet to recover from. You provoke out that very best in me. I say, thank you sondra. May God continue to distinguish you. From Nigeria
jennifer nantongo
hi sondra
thanks for the good work done to save childrens lives
been looking a way to reach you but all in veing,am a friend you met like 13 years back in uganda,still have fresh memory about you and i would like to hear from you a gain
regards jennifer
blaine willis
i saw the trading spouses show , i thought your family was great , you seem like a amazing teenager ,, & ya your family not perfect but lets face it, i dont know one that is ,, it takes alote to open your home up to everyones idea of u and your family ,u guys just seem like u realy love &have fun it made me want to read one of your books or do a craft with my daughter lol take care * blaine
c/o seth
wow, no way! Im Sondra Clark! nise to have someone so cool to share my name! Im 28 and live in the south.
chris
I also saw episode Trading Spouses & yes it raised some issues that were revealed & touched upon but for some reason not mentioned again. Ive actually been trying to find out what changes if any Sondra & her parents made in regards to allowing her to BE the teenager she is. The end of the show where her Mum suggests she do craft & Sondra declined to do so & continued to read her magazine, seemed very contrived & the grin Sondra gave to camera left ME wondering. Certainly Sondra is without doubt a young lady to be admired & applauded for her achievements, one would be a fool to even try denying that. Yet, one would also be a fool to deny she is being held back & denied many of the experiences of her age. I wonder if this is still the case? Sondra herself looked sad & at a loss as to why she has little or no friends or experience with boys let alone a boyfriend! Her Fathers reaction to the subjet was puzzling in the way he brought the topic to abrupt end, both in the car when discussing friends & again when discussing boyfriends. He did not allow Sondra to respond or speak for self on both occassions. Sondra seemed at a loss FOR a response to the boyfriend issue & looked to her Father for an answer. Is Sondra the meat between the bread in this marriage? More of a craft companion for Mum & company for her so Dad need not be (because I also wonder DO Mum & Dad have friends? Individually AND as a couple?? In fact, DO they have a LIFE as a COUPLE at all??). Being a parent we protect our CHILDREN as best we can, we teach them, advise them & love them, none of this ever stops…but we also ALLOW them to grow as the UNIQUE INDIVIDUALS that they are. protecting them IS NOT stifling them, impeding their growth as individuals!! It IS selfish for any parent to hide behind excuses of protection merely in order to CONTROL our children & to keep them where WE want them! The question IS WHY would a parent WANT to deny their child LIFE experience? I can only hope that the sister, who clearly can see what is going on & recognises Sondra is missing out & being denied her natural journey of life, WILL or HAS already stepped in & helped Sondra become her own person. The only reason Sondra is/was not emotionally ready or equipped for boyfriends & such, as her Father deemed the case, is/was because THEY WOULD NOT ALLOW HER TO BE! Very sad indeed. As I see much time has passed since the making of the show, I hope Sondra DID break free & far from being a “freak” ~ which is only someone who is proclaimed by the ‘norm’ to be different, & oh heaven forbid anyone BE DIFFERENT ~ I think she is indeed an amazing young woman…just waiting to evolve & be HERSELF!
Jes
Anastasija-
Where did you get that information you presented? Do you have a website or something? I would like to read/view it.
Anastasija
I would just like to say wow after watching the show trading spouses… this girl has problems both her and her mother do… and the fact that the sister said her mom turned sondra into a mini me is sick i would be ashamed of myself if i secluded my daughter like that and it is no wonder that the poor girl has no friends the father mentions that her leaving school was because the girls were mean to her they were not mean they simply think she is a freak just as the other family thought the same about her mother. The father seems really normal how can he put up with the two of the again I say wow …
Jes
You can e-mail me and I can help you with the Sondra Clark dilemma and your problem. christianservantsintl@yahoo.com
Nicole Medina
I don’t understand why it’s not working :( I think I am mistaken because I thought this website was Sondra Clark’s. Do you know how I could Email her or even find her website? Maybe you are just as sweet and caring as her and could help me? u could go on MySpace and type: http://www.nickychula2@yahoo.com in the search and you can mail me on a more personal level there :) (u must type www. to search me). thank u SOOO much for responding!